Sunday, June 21, 2009

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the roomie had been busy all day and neglecting me. yes, im complaining because im bored. in fact, i know i've no grounds to complain because i left him spending his time alone too when i go partying or mahjonging or hanging out with my budds. haha. anyway, i could have gone with him to the event but since today is father's day, i thought i should stay home and be my daddy's girl instead.

i believe the above illustrates the simple rule of life about personal space? or does it just speak of mutual understanding, communication, independence or all of the above?

relationship is such an amazing yet complicating part of our lives. most of us cant handle it and most of the times, we screw up and we want to give up. but as time moves on, we gather more experience, we give and take, we learn, we become better. the roomie and i screwed up too, but we found the light in the end because one of us is still hanging on each time. hopefully, this good habit continues, haha. still, a lot of people cant survive because of character, culture differences, background differences, etc. i say inevitable.

but somewhat, we realize it's the same shit all over again each time we start a new relationship. perhaps, why even bother? or because mankind are too complicated these days as well? flaws of a modern society? i say simplicity and innocence are way too far gone from us.

no shit, im so profound tonight.

1 comment:

Zhiwei said...

We din screw up. We argued and fought. hahaha...

How can ever anyone living their own lives for the 20 plus years be totally able to accommodate another with a different lifestyle the same past 20 plus years? Brothers and sisters living together fight all the time too, let alone couples. So its normal to have differences.

I repeat, I didn't screw up and yes more personal space is good. ; )